I'm being put even further in the middle in the Eliss/Jophus situation, because when things get screwed up (when Eliss screws up) the first person Joe or Greg calls is me, and because she is attached to my hip I can't have a real conversation (read: bitchfest) with them. She complains about the way she is, but doesn't do anything to change. I am really afraid that eventually I'm going to have to choose beteen the two of them, and I honestly don't know who I would choose. Eliss and I have been through so much together but she drives me crazy, and Joe is so amazing and I'm so thankful to have him in my life but he's always so busy that sometimes we just don't have the time for each other. They're both great people, and I don't want to have to choose.